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Zito & Family

From Rocking to the sounds of Zito:
Thursday, February 26, 2004

Rocking to the sounds of Zito

By Alysse Minkoff
Page 3 columnist

If you're looking to describe Oakland A's pitcher Barry Zito's musical contribution to his sister Sally's band The Sally Zito Project, you'd first better talk to his Dad.

"We're going for a female 'Ben Folds Five' kinda groove," says Joe Zito.

And at his age (a sophisticated senior), the elder Zito knows a thing or two about putting together a band that grooves. Joe was Nat King Cole's composer and arranger who met his wife, Roberta, when she sang in the back-up group The Merry Young Souls.

Catching up with the Zito's between the sound check and the performance at Los Angeles nightclub Club Lingerie, it's clear that music is a family affair. Think post-modern von Trapp Family: Middle child, Sally (34), does most of the songwriting, plays the keyboards and sings. Eldest Bonnie, (38) sings background vocals. And baby brother Barry, who will turn 26 in May and has a day job pitching for the Oakland A's, plays guitar, sings lead and background vocals; and occasionally writes a song or two.

And here's a great piece of Barry Zito Trivia: He uses both hands. Though this Lefty is known for his dirty curve ball, he plays guitar with his right hand.

"I've always been ambidextrous," he shrugs. Barry writes and plays guitar right handed -- he only makes a living pitching with his Cy Young award-winning left hand.

Guitar and baseball are, pardon the expression, hand in glove for Zito. "I started playing guitar my first big-league Spring Training in 2000. I knew baseball was going to be pretty hellacious and I needed to be sure I had something to take my mind off the game. Something to do in the hotel at night. For a year it was classic; I was tuning my guitar and playing 3 chords. And then I started getting some books -- a lot of Dave Matthew's stuff and it really helped my technique."

The make-your-own music trend has caught on to the point where the A's Clubhouse is about to become a hootenanny.

"Now Tim Hudson, Scott Hatteburg, Rich Harden, have all gone out and bought guitars. So I'm really looking forward to seeing these guys progress. It's great when we can all strum together," says Zito.

But it was Sally who saw that her little brother had potential. "Barry was kinda listening to my songs and at one point I wrote charts for him. About a year and a half ago, in the off-season, we started jamming together. Then I got a percussionist, a bass player. And we've just added two backup singers, our sister Bonnie is one. We've done maybe five or six shows together. We're kinda new, so we've just been stacking on as it goes."

"Barry is a great songwriter," Sally explains. "Forget that he's only been playing for three years; he's got musicianship as if he'd been writing songs for years. The first song he ever wrote was ridiculously advanced. Our jaws dropped."

Singer/songwriter John Mayer has always been a musical influence of Barry's. "The key is to take sophisticated music and dump it into a contemporary pop form," Barry contends. "Most people are like: 'Your body is a wonderland...' Yeah, John Mayer is a pop singer. They have no idea of his musical abilities and that's fine. They don't' need to know. And I think Sally is in that boat... the music is so advanced yet it is wrapped up, sealed and delivered in a pop fashion."

"I wrote a song a year ago called 'Boy Next Door'. It's like the whole bar scene... you go up to a girl and talk to her and she has her guard up. She thinks you're the Big Bad Wolf, which is what most guys are, I guess. So I'm like, 'Hey, I could be the greatest guy you ever met, so just give me a chance. I could be your Boy Next Door.'"

He takes a beat and adds, "It just so happens we're meeting each other in a strip club. But don't paint me with that brush." And with that, all three Zitos dissolve into laughter.

One of the added benefits of having a close relationship with his older sisters is that it gives Barry a unique take on the female psyche. "It gives me a real perspective into the female --"

"Mind?" Bonnie interjects.

"And sometimes I'm able to translate 'guy behavior' for my sisters. Bonnie will call and say, 'He told me this, and he did that. What is he saying?' And I'll sort it out for her."

Sometimes help for Barry Zito in the always baffling girl department is only a speed dial phone call away.

"I was walking out of Target one night at 8:30 and I was like, 'Why is Barry calling me?' And it was, like, 'Emergency girl advice. Right now, dude!'" says Bonnie.

"Sometimes it's all about whoever I can get on the phone first," Barry laughs. "If it's the dating game, I'll call Bonnie. If some chick says something that's a deeply rooted 'girl thing,' then I'll call Sally. It's great -- I get advice from both sides."

But who gets more girls, rock stars or baseball players?

"I know a lot of guys who play in bands who are totally hot. And yet I think baseball players get more chicks," opines Sally.

"I don't know," counters Barry. "I think rock stars definitely appeal to a wider audience. Everyone likes music, but only a select amount of females like baseball... ."

Duly noted.

Ultimately, music is an integral part of what keeps Barry focused over a long season of road trips, hotel rooms and room service.

"It helps me. I find that when I'm focusing just on baseball it actually works against me. Last year, I was in this rut -- the whole year. I just kept stressing out about baseball. I find when I'm thinking about music, or other projects like photography... whatever I can do to get me away from baseball, when I get to the field I have an underlying conviction that everything's cool. "

And while pitching informs his music, music definitely informs the work that he does on the mound.

"It's that zone you get into," Barry says. "Even when you're playing onstage and you've got the percussion and the bass and everyone is just locked into that pocket, everyone is on time. Boom. It's kinda like pitching. If you're in the pocket, everything mechanically in your delivery is on time."

"Our dad says that you only win to the degree that you're willing to lose. And if you're willing to lose it all, then you're probably going to win it all," quotes Barry.

"It's becoming more and more of who you are. That's the whole point of being on this planet," Sally offers as they head up for one last sound check before their performance, "Becoming more. Let it all show and unzip and give it you're all. That's what we try to do up there, and that's what Barry does on the mound that's so cool."

The Sally Zito Project will release their debut CD in May 2004. As usual, it is a family affair: Barry's song, "The Boy Next Door," featuring Barry on lead vocals, is one of the tracks.

"We should sell it on eBay," Barry laughs. "We can package a signed baseball with every CD. That oughta work."

From Zito just a kid on Christmas:
12/24/2003 8:00 AM ET
Zito just a kid on Christmas
By Kent Schacht /

OAKLAND -- Even though he's 25, A's starter Barry Zito still has the ability to look at the world with the enthusiasm of a little kid. Not surprisingly, Christmas is one of Zito's favorite times of the year. recently sat down with Zito and talked about what makes this time of year special. What does Christmas mean around the Zito household?

Zito: It's meant a lot recently. Ever since my mom had her (liver) transplant (in 1999), Christmas isn't so much for giving a lot of gifts like we used to. But lately, it's been more, just being happy to have the whole family together.

There are five of us in our family and my sister got divorced a few years ago, so it keeps coming back to having us five together, with all three of the kids single. It's funny, we're like kids again. We stay at our parents' house the night before Christmas and we all wake up in the morning and open presents. It's totally like we're kids -- really cool.

My one sister is almost 40, my other one is 35 and I'm 25. Usually people are all over the country away from their mom and dad and everyone's married with kids. But it's just us five still, which is cool. You were the youngest child, so as a little kid, were you always the first one up on Christmas?

Zito: Always the first one up. My oldest sister was out of the house, and up until I was about 9, my youngest sister was still there. They would come back for Christmas though. But anyway, I'd get up really early in the morning and start yelling "C'mon, let's go!" and everyone, especially my sister was like "I want to sleep until 11," because she was in that 19-year-old Christmas mode, which was like I can sleep as late as I want.

Now the tides have turned, and everybody's waking me up. Going "Barry, c'mon," and I'm like, "It's like 11, I still want to sleep!" Do you have any traditions in your family, special foods for Christmas dinner or that kind of thing?

Zito: Well, I got a new house this year, so we're going to have Christmas morning at my parents' house and then the family is going to come over to my house for Christmas Day and dinner. It's going to be cool, because it's my first Christmas in my house with the family. What's on the menu for dinner? Are you going to cook?

Zito: I don't know what's going to happen. We're probably just going to hire a chef or something, pull some bootleg move. But we'll probably have turkey; we're a turkey family. Do you guys open presents on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day? What other traditions do you have?

Zito: On Christmas Eve, we open one present. That's it. We just get to pick one, open it, that's it. We still do stockings, we still do it all, though. What do you want for Christmas this year?

Zito: It's weird, because you can have whatever you want, so my family asks me, "So how do we shop for you now?" But now, for me, I'd be happier with something like a card that just meant a lot, or a cool little candleholder or gift that had a lot of thought behind it.

I've got my house, I've my (Dodge) Durango, I've got clothes. I don't really need anything special, so I just want everyone to be healthy and happy. That's the best gift in the whole wide world.

That said, I think I'm going to buy myself an iPod.

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